Disobedient is when you're doing something that ignores what someone else told you to do right?

If you tell some people, and tell more people, that's not ignoring it, that's making it better. [Because see, you were told to pass it to someone. And you did. And then you passed it to More.]

They'd have to say, 'don't tell anyone else', for it to be 'disobedient'.