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Lauren Tanner ([personal profile] mylastchance) wrote in [community profile] limacharlie2017-03-29 06:57 pm

PUBLIC CHANNEL - DAY 75

I... Need help with something. But I can't be specific.


How can you help someone if you don't understand what the problem is?
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[personal profile] fortuneglass 2017-03-30 03:29 am (UTC)(link)
I think...

...The best thing you can do is talk to them, but don't talk to them to try and change their mind. The hardest part is realizing what they're really angry at-that would help, but....

Until then, you have to talk to them about what they think they're angry at, and try to work with them through it. It's hard...

...But even that should help.
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[personal profile] fortuneglass 2017-03-30 03:46 am (UTC)(link)
It means you help them fix the problem-for real, and not the way they were thinking of.
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[personal profile] fortuneglass 2017-03-30 03:59 am (UTC)(link)
Well...to be fair to that, most people don't deal with this all the time either..!

They definitely don't expect to. It just...happens.
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[personal profile] fortuneglass 2017-03-30 04:06 am (UTC)(link)
.....

I'm sorry I couldn't help any more. ...But good luck, okay?